Sisters In Arms: A Father Remembers by John Witmer
About the Author:
John Witmer is the father of five children after some moving around while they were young, has made New Berlin Wisconsin home. Three of his five kids, all girls, signed up for the National Guard and were deployed to Iraq “not as part of the a women’s auxiliary, but as part of a fully-trained, fully-equipped fighting force” as he writes in the prologue.
About the Book:
Sisters in Arms is a twenty-first century war story – the Witmer family’s personal war story. Michelle Witmer was the first female National Guard member in history to be killed in action and the first Wisconsin National Guard combat fatality since WWII. The Witmer family’s struggle with the complex issue of family members serving side-by-side received world-wide media attention and Michelle Witmer’s story would later be included in the HBO documentary “Last Letters Home.” Using the letters, emails and phone calls received during their deployment, John Witmer describes his daughters experiences in Iraq and provides insight not only into the lives of female soldiers, but into the lives of families who wait for soldiers. Sisters in Arms illuminates the changing roles of women in the military while sharing the deeply personal story of a family’s struggle to come to terms with profound loss.
My take of the Book:
Right from the first chapter as Witmer paints the picture of a tense situation as a crowd of people start to march on the police station that he daughter Rachel is guarding as part of the 32nd MPs, you are drawn, almost unwillingly into what is going to be a tense yet heart warming remembrance from a powerless father. Immediately after that heart racing intro you are brought back in time to got to know this family better. As with all great stories you have to go back to make sense of what is happening now.
Witmer’s three daughters Michelle, Rachel, and Charity all joined the National Guard on their own without any prompting or encouragement from their parents. They were strong self sufficient women who saw what they wanted and went after it, even laying out their plans to their parents when two of the girls were too young to enlist. They went through the same training that every solider goes through at basic training, there is no easier “women’s” section. Michelle and Rachel deployed first and Charity would deploy later as part of the 118th Medical Battalion that was meant to be un-deployable. In a war where the combat lines and front lines are no longer clearly drawn the idea that women are not on the front line is no longer true.
Sisters In Arms tells the story of war and a family watching their loved ones in harms way through journal entries, letters home, and the remembrance of a Father. Knowing that three women were deployed but only one returns makes this book a tough read but it is a good and important read. More than anything Witmer wants to convey the true cost of war so that we are not sending our Sons and Daughters into harms way without that understanding. He does not want this to be a political book and he admits that there is nothing he could have done to change his daughters minds. They are great kids, raised well, and made their own decisions with clear eyes. I think the hope is that those that would send these kids to war would make decisions in the same way.
I enjoyed this book but find it hard to recommend to just anyone. It is an important and worthy story that needs to be heard but it is also hard and heart breaking. You will be glad that you picked this book up, and your heart will be full with this family.
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