Tear drops, pontoons, and roasted marshmallows

Last week the boys and I went with my parents to Central Oregon to go camping for the week. We loaded my dad’s tear drop trailer he built from plans he found in a 1947 Mechanics magazine and headed South East. Along the way we ran into an accident that had Highway 26 closed while they investigated so we took the time to have some dinner in the middle of the road. With no sign of the road opening we doubled back in search of alternate routes and as we drove the back roads to our camp site darkness and rain came in heavy doses. The thought of setting up a tent in the pitch black pouring rain didn’t appeal to any of us so it was hotel room instead of a camp fire that first night. The boys prayed that the rain would stop and the next day we found our camp site on Lake Simtustus.

The camp ground was one that my dad used when he was working out in the area last year and most of the residents still knew him and his unfinished trailer. They gave him a hard time for not making in progress but you could tell they loved having him back. The boys sought adventure so we hiked a rocky hillside down to sandy beach and played in the lake. The whole trip both boys were up for anything and hardly fought with each other. The fresh air brought out the best versions of my kids and probably the best version of all of us. We rented a pontoon boat and cruised the lake end to end stopping to have a swim and grab a drink from a spring coming right out of the high rock walls.

We moved onto another camp site on another lake for a couple more days and did some hiking through the arid landscape. We found caves and looked for rattle snakes before cooling off in lake Billy Chinook. I have written about Segundos aversion to smores before and while that was unchanged on this trip we did find that he is the best marshmallow roaster we have ever seen. He has the patience to slowly spin the roasting stick close enough to the heat to soften but far enough away to keep it from burning. We placed a graham cracker on the fire pit grate with a piece of chocolate melting, then added a bit of peanut butter, and finally topped it off with Segundo’s almost liquid marshmallow for the single greatest smore the world has ever seen. A single tear ran down my cheek as I savored the gooey crunchy creation.

We made it home with no real injuries save a minor sunburn for me and exhausted from a great trip with my parents. We were well feed by my mom’s fantastic cooking, even on a camp stove and grill. On the way home we talked about their favorite parts: riding bikes with grandma and papa, swimming at the sandy beach, riding the boat around the lake, and waking up to a snuggle around the camp fire. We had a fun time and have already started planning our next camping trip. Now if we can only make sure my mom is there to cook and my dad is there to get the fire started and pack the truck with all our gear.

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Papa’s got a summer bag

Now that both boys are diaper free I’m not having to carry a diaper bag around every where we go, but that doesn’t mean the bag stays at home. Having a well stocked bag is key to parent on the go and with summer in full swing we are often out of the house searching for adventure. I’m not one of those anti-diaper bag guys but you won’t find any girly bags in this house. We use a Dickies Messenger bag with patches and pins celebrating the greatest soccer team in the world, the Portland Timbers. Here is the rest of of our summer bag inventory:

  •  Sunscreen for those fair boys and their translucent skin
  • Spare choonies and t-shirts
  • First Aid bag with band aids, ointment, medical tape, daddy’s allergy meds.
  • Wet Wipes, even without the diapers these are must haves for messy kids.
  • Gold Fish or some other snack for emergency hunger pains.
  • Plastic cups for splitting up beverages on the go.
  • Smarty Phone
  • Digital camera

Keeping a well stocked bag makes it easier to get out the door quickly and still have what you need. What do you have in your summer bag?

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The Birthday boy, or coffee’s for five year olds

Beautiful and I woke up to a quiet room with both boys missing. They were up already and upstairs with their Aunts Mandy and Meg while we slept the morning away. It was just past 7 AM but that was practically noon on this vacation of early mornings and late nights. We rushed upstairs to find our birthday boy and there he was at the kitchen table, cup of coffee in hand, chatting with the ladies. “I’m 5 now mommy so I drink Coffee!” he told us emphatically. Aunt Mandy, the Doctor, said it was OK and she watered it down with lots of chocolate milk. He was pretty proud of himself as we smothered him with kisses. He had already had two birthday cakes and opened a few presents but today was the day, today we smothered him and told him about the day he was born. The Middle Eastern family in the waiting room, daddy needing to go for a walk during the epidural, and Grandpa Tom Tom sneaking into the room after the nurses made him leave. He got the whole story over our morning coffee.

Later in the day we went to Uncle Bob’s farm. He is Grandpa Tom Tom’s Uncle Bob and at 82 is still running the farm on his own. We toured the grain silo’s full of junk the American Pickers guys would drool over. We saw old scooters and motorcycles, 100 year old John Deere engines, and generations of equipment telling the history of farming on this land that has been in the family for close to 200 years. The boys climbed up every tractor and truck in the large barn, always asking first and always being told it was OK. They had the run of the place, eyes opened so wide you’d have thought their faces were stuck that way. They played in a 1948 dump truck, and a Bulldozer that had two engines, one to start it and one to run it. There was a 24 row planting trailer that was pulled by one of the tractors and the boys examined that thoroughly as well. It was a wonderland for little ones and the best birthday destination for Primo who had his John Deere t-shirt on for the occasion.

With so much great stuff to see the boys were bouncing back and forth between it all, but by far the two favorite pieces of equipment were the Piper Cub airplane and the Model A car. The Model A had four flat tires, no front hood, and no seats but two 5 gallon buckets were placed on the frame and the boys were in heaven. They hoped up there and started driving where ever their imagination would take them. Primo would get down and pretend to work on the engine with his helper named James. “It’s not you daddy, it’s my worker also named James.” Then he would run over to the plane, climb in, and start checking the flaps. He would move the stick all around looking back to see what part of the plane moved with each action. We told him to be careful, but Bob said he was fine, that he wouldn’t hurt anything. That was best part for me, the willingness to let a 5 year old lose on some expensive equipment and old treasures, and let him experience everything on his own terms. I wanted to hug Uncle Bob for that, but there is only so many times you can get away with hugging an 82 Iowa farmer.

We gave Primo the option of staying longer at the farm or heading back to Newton where presents were waiting to be opened and he choose to stay at the farm. Whatever was wrapped in all those packages couldn’t possibly top sitting in a real airplane and pretending to fly. We drove in a Semi truck as it was moved from the lower barn up to unload soy from one of the silos. We toured the property on a quad, taking turns riding Primo around. We roasted hotdogs on a fire of corn cobs started with a blow torch and got dirtier than we have ever been. When it was finally time to go we washed off in the bath and said goodbye to Uncle Bob who offered to take the boys for a summer of farm work when they were old enough. He will be up over 90 when that time comes but I bet still going strong. The boys slept hard as we drove the 2 hours back to Newton, and Beautiful and I marveled at what a great Birthday present that was for our 5 year old.

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